You Do Not Belong in the Sexual Marketplace

Ending the Cult of Lust and Vanity

Young people today walk into the sexual marketplace both as buyers and as vendors. They all have something to sell and something they wish to buy. Six feet tall. Perfect Muscles. Under 25. Blue eyes. Long hair. Big breasts. Clear skin. Big bums. Good hip to waist ratio. Skinny arms. Perfect nose. Makes a million dollars a year. All of these things, one can imagine, are hawked like wares in a market. Am I talking about a man or a woman? It seems like it doesn’t even matter these days. When everyone treats each other like they’re for sale, the idea of Man or Woman seems trite and old-fashioned.

Where does this behaviour come from? What problem does it indicate in society? And how can we possibly remedy it without neglecting the truth about our natural desires and attractions? The first step, is to understand the nature of Homosexuality, Vanity and Lust.

The Slave Market by Jean Leon Gerome

Homosexuality is not only permitted in modern culture, it is endorsed and enforced on everyone. People who do not engage in homosexuality are ostracised from normal society and are labelled as religious extremists or bigots. You might be wondering “well most people are heterosexual so I don’t know what you mean by this”. This is where it’s important to understand what homosexuality truly is.

Like many words and phrases, such as “environmentalism”, “black lives matter”, and “women’s rights”, “gay man” means something very different than what the name itself implies. The name is a lie. It does not mean “Happy men” and in fact they are always secretly miserable, because of the demons they have allowed into their psyche due to childhood sexual trauma or other forms of unfettered lust (more on the nature of the workings of lust a little later).

Homo means “same”, and Sexuality is the word for sexual desire or inclination. Being a homosexual in the literal sense should simply mean a sexual desire for the “Same” sex. Healthy people do not have sexual desires for the same sex. A homosexual is a man who has a perverted natural desire in that he has sexual desires for another man. This is not a genetic condition or a natural one. Because a man cannot consummate a relationship with another man. At the risk of imputing vulgarity, I will not describe this in much detail, but the “Sexual relations” between homosexual men are not sexual at all because there is no sex involved. It is simply a fetish. A fetish is by definition sexual arousal from things that are not the desirable qualities of the opposite sex. “Gay men” are using each others’ bodies to fulfil fetishes. They are notorious for being extremely promiscuous and often pedophilic (which incidentally does not mean loving children) as well. To gay men, the sexual act is just a body to be used. It is not a union of two bodies and spirits, but rather a demonic humiliation ritual where one person is aroused by sadism and the other by being humiliated.

Any gay man refuting this claim are lying to your face. They all know it. Sodomy is a humiliation ritual of a fetish; it is not real sex. In fact there is no such thing as a gay man, there are only men who suffer and give in to the sin of lust and feel no qualms about it. It is different only in degree from bestiality, and other fetishes.

What makes sodomy so wrong is precisely what makes all fornication wrong. This means that even heterosexual relations between a man and woman are vulnerable to the same degeneracy that plagues gay men.

Lust is a perversion of sex in the same way that Gluttony is a perversion of hunger. Gluttony satisfies the hunger of the body in insalubrious and poisonous ways. Whereas eating healthfully is meant to nourish the body, sex is meant to nourish the basic need for connection between a man and woman. Lust is a perversion of sex because rather than loving the whole person, one desires only pieces of the body. A pair of lips, a set of breasts. The body thus separated from the person becomes a fetish because one cannot love body parts in isolation, one can only love human beings.

When we a man loves a woman, he loves the whole of her, including her spirit, her personality and her heart. It is natural to enumerate those qualities that men generally find attractive in a woman such as a nice figure, long hair and full lips, but these are qualities that adorn, they are not alone the object of adoration. In his essay On Beauty, Roger Scruton talks about beauty as something that is greater than the sum of its parts and is not interchangeable. If the same set of breasts or type of hair was taken from a woman you loved and attached to another, would your affections shift as well? If you truly love her, they would not because they would only be a part of the person you love and not her true essence. This is why husbands and wives can love each other through the vicissitudes of life, through childbearing, disease and ageing. Physical pulchritude deteriorates with time, but love is nourished by it and grows. An 80 year old man looking at his wife whom he adores sees the same beautiful girl that he married at 23. The 75 year old wife see the same strong and impressive man she married even when he is in the body of a frail 80 year old who walks with a cane. This is called Love.

Our modern culture has a disturbing obsession with vanity and it derives from a focus shift away from romance and toward Lust. Part of the reason this is occurring is that we are chopping ourselves up into pieces when we present ourselves. Rather than meeting people as whole human beings, young women sell themselves online as a set of body parts. Most of these young women are self professed prostitutes, so lust as the material of their trade. They present only their physical aspects to the “audience” and so they can only be desired as one may desires objects--in other words, they can only be the subject of fetish and lust, not love. They can never be loved as whole people (because they are hole people).

The recent “Trad femininity” movement suffers from something similar which is more insidious because it is less obvious. Rather than women being loved for who they are, they feel compelled to enumerate a list of skills and assets they can provide in the transactional arrangement they call marriage. There is no sense of romance in this. A woman’s qualities and skills such as her ability to cook nice food, or her ability to do farm work may be valuable to an employer, and attractive to a man looking for a wife, but they are neither necessary nor sufficient qualities. One finds that in love, one learns and changes oneself to become all those things that the other needs. A girl who is no good in the kitchen might go on youtube and consult books just to learn how to make her boyfriend a wonderful meal just because she loves him. A man who is not wealthy might figure out a way to learn the skills to earn more money so he can give his girl a nice house to live in. People grow when they are in love and become better versions of themselves. On the other hand, in a business transaction, as soon as one party becomes incapable of providing the service that was initially stipulated in the contract, the contract can be ended. As soon as the wife gets a health problem that doesn’t allow her to cook and clean for a while, will the husband stop loving her? As soon as the husband loses his job or falls ill, will the wife stop loving him? If they truly love each other the love doesn’t end.

This is the difference between vanity and love. While some qualities may be more attractive than others, when we do in fact fall in love with the whole person, they become ultimately less important than the essence of the person. What is the essence of a person? This is a question for another essay, but the short answer is that these are their values, their heart and their natural temperament.

Most people today are homosexuals who are wracked with lust and vanity. They use, abuse and humiliate each other constantly. Women publicly humiliate their men after they get them to act like women, by cheating on them, by using them like ATM machines. Men humiliate women by sleeping with them with no plan to marry them, by using them like maids and holes, by cheating on them. Women also humiliate themselves when they tolerate the humiliation of being someone’s girlfriend/maid/prostitute for years on end with no sincere vow of love and devotion. They humiliate themselves by wearing neon bikinis in public and pretending they are “liberated” when in reality they are exhibitionists getting off at their own humiliation like a gay bottom. They are not straight, healthy women enjoying their beauty because there is dignity involved in enjoying your beauty. All prostitutes are homosexuals.

The rise in plastic surgeries and cosmetic procedures and the increased fixation on youth for women is a symptom of this mass plague of homosexuality, lust and vanity in modern culture.

Girls as young as 26 are getting botox and hyper-fixated on sixteen step anti-aging skincare protocols. Men are hyper-focused on optimising their blood work so they don’t age, and as much as they flex in their selfies are incapable of fighting, incapable of bending the world to their WILL to make it how they want it to be. Without the proper telos for our best qualities, they deteriorate and become nothing but cheap, humiliating costumes.

Youth and beauty in its natural order is meant to be life giving and full of vitality. Vitality is by definition the potential for future life. Instead, both men and women alike use vitality and youth as a fetish. The degenerate men crave young women but only to sleep with and discard like a tissue paper. They don’t want to love them, create life and to nurture that new life together. This infertility is a form of homosexuality and it is a mental illness; if any other creature on earth displayed this behaviour you would shoot it between the eyes for being so mentally deformed that it would be cruelty to allow it to keep suffering and you’d worry the disease would be contagious. The telos of vitality is more vitality. Youth begetting more youth through children and family. Love begetting and multiplying into more love.

If girls are young and lovely it is to become happy mothers for beautiful children who multiply this beauty in the world. If men are strong and wealthy, it is to help build a beautiful world for this beauty to live in and flourish and to protect it from the assaults of the darkness and evil of this world...not to be that darkness itself.

A man who makes a statement such as this doesn’t want a woman to love, he wants a gay bottom to humiliate. Youth is not a sign of fertility for him to potentially start a family, it is a sexual fetish to be used and discarded. He is a homosexual, because he is not attracted to women, he is attracted to an ancillary feature.

The Red Pill, Feminism, Prostitution, Exhibitionism, Trans-people, Homosexuals, these are all different manifestations of the Sins of Lust and Vanity. To liberate modern culture from these sins is a monumental task, but it begins with shame.

We must shame these people wherever we encounter them, and tell them that sin promises a satiation for desire like sea-water promises to quench a sailor’s thirst: it does nothing but increase the thirst itself until the drinker collapses dead. So the sins never satisfy, they torment and torment and torment in increasing levels of degradation until there is nothing but death left--the ultimate and final humiliation.